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The last piece of baklava

April
10

I’m not sure if it’s considered setting a good example for your children to make a batch of baklava and then let it sit around, drenched in honey/sugar sauce, beckoning.

I don’t think we talk much on this blog about making treats (or meals) that don’t quite match up with what a lot of people would consider healthy eating.

I know that there are families that agonize over healthy the way my youngest agonizes over finding a pair of jeans that fit exactly right.

I gave up much of that worry years ago. I make a healthy meal but I have junk around the house and a drawer full of chocolate at work.

For the most part, my kids self-limit their garbage intake. I’ve never made a big deal about it and they know the stuff is available. Neither of the girls likes soda (we didn’t allow them to drink any until they were 11) and my son will only drink Sprite, which doesn’t have caffeine. Their friends seem to be the ones who eat us out of Rice Krispie treats, Coke and Oreos.

But that tray of baklava I made on Sunday is mostly gone, and I’ve only had about 3 pieces. When I left for work today, there was one full piece left and a couple of tiny slivers from the corners.

Since the youngest says she doesn’t like honey, I have to conclude that my oldest and my husband have been on an orgy of baklava eating. I doubt that last piece will be there when I come home tonight.

So should I continue to cater to what may become a really, really bad eating habit and buy some more fillo pastry this weekend?  Enquiring minds want to know…

This entry was posted on Thursday, April 10th, 2008 at 5:28 pm by Randi Weiner.
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3 Responses to “The last piece of baklava”

  1. Steve C.

    Listen,in a world where i can see fiber one commercials and tampax. But not one Twinkie or ring ding commercial. Make those treats!
    Listen, eating healthy is one thing, but you know they are called treats for a reason. and if you think long and hard they are not bad for you. they have most of what one needs. not to go on a diatribe on treats and good vs. bad food. But you know, some of us like a yodel. and other cool snacks. and the fact that you DO NOT see a single commercial for it is unreal. and i find it a sign of where our country is going. Political correctness to the mpteenth degree. Its ok to show fiber one but not ok for anything not considered healthy???
    well you know what, i think fiber one is nasty and probably made of cardboard. so do me a favor and your family. dont stop making the treats it isnt bad when its in moderation.
    I want my commercials back. if i have to sit through DUMB commercials on the dish and regular TV I at least want to know what cool new snacks are being made. or will one day all snacks will be banned and we will pay 100 bucks on black market for treats?

  2. Marianne

    The fact that you MAKE treats puts you miles ahead; at least you know what’s in them (a snack food should not outlive a goldfish, IMHO). Soda is a whole other thing, and we don’t keep that around much, either. Hopefully, if we allow our kids to eat treats at home the chance that they are stuffing themselves with icky packaged products behind our backs is lessened. And as for that 2nd tray of baklava…you know that if you go through all the trouble it will just sit there, right?

  3. Randi Weiner

    Sigh. You’re right, Marianne. My coworkers said they’d be happy to take the remainders off my hands, though!
    It’s funny—when you mentioned that I know what are in the treats I make, I suddenly thought of my first time making jam. We make strawberry jam in the spring as a family task (i’ll be writing about it in June during strawberry season) and do you know it takes five cups of sugar for something like a dozen pints? Who knew?

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Hema Easley Hema Easley has been a reporter for The Journal News since July 2002, first covering municipal government and then nonprofit agencies, women's issues and the South Asian and Muslim community in the Lower Hudson Valley. In her previous job, Hema was a correspondent for the Associated Press in South Asia. She lives with her husband and two sons in Orange County.
KatieKatie Ryan O'Connor, a Journal News editor and 35-year-old mother of three, never quite appreciated the work that went into feeding kids until she had to do it herself as a mother. If she had a food-and-kids philosophy it would be something like this: try your best to offer as much healthy food as possible, but sometimes fruits just have to be counted as vegetables and there are far worse things than chicken and spaghetti. Again.
TraceyTracey Princiotta, a 37-year-old mother of one, loves to cook, bake and eat, and is relieved that her son appears to be equally willing to chow down -- even if it's baby food and formula right now. Despite her husband's intense aversion to vegetables, she has high hopes of nurturing a true chowhound who will try everything at least once. And if all else fails, she's not above sneaking veggies into other foods.
Marcela Rojas Marcela Rojas has been a municipal reporter with The Journal News since January 2003. She is a native of Putnam County and grew up eating Peruvian food. She didn't realize until she was 13 that rice did not come with everyone's meal. After several years of living in Los Angeles -- where she grew a fondness for Thai food -- she returned to Putnam County where she now lives with her husband and daughter. Zyla (rhymes with Lilah) just turned 1 in March and, so far (her mother is pleased to note), loves to eat everything.
Swapna Venugopal Swapna Venugopal Ramaswamy, a Journal News reporter, started her career as a journalist in 1999 after graduating with a master's degree from New York University. Before joining the paper in 2006, Swapna worked as a municipal reporter for the Home News Tribune in New Jersey, and took a baby sabbatical to care for her two children, now ages 7 and 5. She has currently outsourced feeding her children and husband to her mother, who is visiting from India. Her friend and colleague Katie O'Connor, informs Swapna that she wouldn't mind being fed Indian food by her mother, too.
Randi Weiner Randi Weiner has been a reporter with The Journal News since 1989, having covered police, government and schools in Westchester and in Rockland. An Ohio native and 1976 graduate of Bowling Green State University, she worked for daily newspapers in Ohio and Michigan before moving east. She has tended bar and danced in a beledi troup and sat on the boards of two community theaters. She plays mandolin with the Shamrogues, Connecticuts largest Irish band. Randi lives in Connecticut with her husband and has three children.

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