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PDB…Public display of breastfeeding

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If you happened to be on a Brooklyn-bound A train in the city today, you may have noticed a group of breastfeeding mothers and supporters, collectively known as the New York City Breastfeeding Promotion Leadership Committee, riding the rails educating the public on the benefits of mothers milk and on womens’ rights to breastfeed.

tjndc5-5b3xbxsdw901g23ax6m5_layout.jpgThe annual “Subway Caravan” was formed in 2004 after a transit cop issued a ticket to a young woman breastfeeding her child. According to this group, the “fear of public reaction to breastfeeding is still cited by women as a reason why they are reluctant to breastfeed.”

As a mom who breastfed her daughter for her first six months of life—whether on a park bench or in a mall—I never knew there were any laws ANYWHERE saying you couldn’t do so. And quite frankly, that’s just plain wrong. How can you equate nourishing your child to indecent exposure?

I understand there should be a level of discreetness when engaging in a breastfeeding session—I always carried around a blanket or large shawl for such excursions—but banning it in some public areas should not be happening in this day and age. Hey, that’s just my ahhmm, humble opinion. Anyone else have any thoughts on the matter?

This entry was posted on Friday, August 1st, 2008 at 2:53 pm by Marcela Rojas.
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3 Responses to “PDB…Public display of breastfeeding”

  1. Meredith

    I nursed both my kids in public, at church, at a funeral, at the beach, at the pool, park, mall. Why this is still an issue today puzzles me, too. I always did it discreetly and what no one ever tells you is that when properly done, most people don’t even realize your nursing.

    Sorry I missed the caravan of nursing…I’d have cheered them on!

  2. Katie Ryan O'Connor

    Same here.
    I’ve often wondered what it says about our culture that we sexualize, and in some cases criminalize, the feeding of an infant.
    Hopefully my two daughters will look back in genuine puzzlement that this was an issue at all, let alone one that required public protest.

  3. Wendy

    I’ve nursed both of my children in all sorts of places- anywhere I was, and they needed feeling, they were fed. I only received a comment form an old lady at McDonalds- she was appalled that I was nursing (discreetly, of course) there. It is a shame that people have issues with breastfeeding.

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Hema Easley Hema Easley has been a reporter for The Journal News since July 2002, first covering municipal government and then nonprofit agencies, women's issues and the South Asian and Muslim community in the Lower Hudson Valley. In her previous job, Hema was a correspondent for the Associated Press in South Asia. She lives with her husband and two sons in Orange County.
KatieKatie Ryan O'Connor, a Journal News editor and 35-year-old mother of three, never quite appreciated the work that went into feeding kids until she had to do it herself as a mother. If she had a food-and-kids philosophy it would be something like this: try your best to offer as much healthy food as possible, but sometimes fruits just have to be counted as vegetables and there are far worse things than chicken and spaghetti. Again.
TraceyTracey Princiotta, a 37-year-old mother of one, loves to cook, bake and eat, and is relieved that her son appears to be equally willing to chow down -- even if it's baby food and formula right now. Despite her husband's intense aversion to vegetables, she has high hopes of nurturing a true chowhound who will try everything at least once. And if all else fails, she's not above sneaking veggies into other foods.
Marcela Rojas Marcela Rojas has been a municipal reporter with The Journal News since January 2003. She is a native of Putnam County and grew up eating Peruvian food. She didn't realize until she was 13 that rice did not come with everyone's meal. After several years of living in Los Angeles -- where she grew a fondness for Thai food -- she returned to Putnam County where she now lives with her husband and daughter. Zyla (rhymes with Lilah) just turned 1 in March and, so far (her mother is pleased to note), loves to eat everything.
Swapna Venugopal Swapna Venugopal Ramaswamy, a Journal News reporter, started her career as a journalist in 1999 after graduating with a master's degree from New York University. Before joining the paper in 2006, Swapna worked as a municipal reporter for the Home News Tribune in New Jersey, and took a baby sabbatical to care for her two children, now ages 7 and 5. She has currently outsourced feeding her children and husband to her mother, who is visiting from India. Her friend and colleague Katie O'Connor, informs Swapna that she wouldn't mind being fed Indian food by her mother, too.
Randi Weiner Randi Weiner has been a reporter with The Journal News since 1989, having covered police, government and schools in Westchester and in Rockland. An Ohio native and 1976 graduate of Bowling Green State University, she worked for daily newspapers in Ohio and Michigan before moving east. She has tended bar and danced in a beledi troup and sat on the boards of two community theaters. She plays mandolin with the Shamrogues, ConnecticutÕs largest Irish band. Randi lives in Connecticut with her husband and has three children.

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