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Fine dining with baby

October
22

We splurged this Sunday after we scored a reservation at the new Mario Batali/Joe Bastianich restaurant, Tarry Lodge, in Port Chester.  I had been reading about the new pizzeria/trattoria for months, from not only our very own food writer Liz Johnson, but from Westchester magazine which had an interview with Bastianich over the summer, in which he described his new digs as a family restaurant. Those two words, these days, always catch my attention.

So after I called on Thursday, thinking there would be no way we could get a reservation for the weekend, I was pleasantly surprised that in fact they could seat a party of three with highchair on Sunday. Of course, asking for a 4 p.m. seating may have helped. I’ve learned it’s best to go “early bird” when dining with baby. It just makes everyone more comfortable.

When we arrived promptly at 4, the staff was running a few minutes late. No problem. There were two couples ahead of us, so we passed the time perusing the menu. Suddenly I heard the woman in the green sweater—obviously running the show that day—say to the two hostesses: seat the lady with the baby first, in the mezzanine. I thought great, there are perks to dining with child. Of course, the mezzanine was not exactly the best part of the restaurant. Still, not a problem. We were there for the food—which I must stress right now, was superb!!! Hands down, one of the better meals I’ve ever eaten.

We were seated at a four-top and put Zyla’s highchair in between us, close to the wall. If she’s sandwiched in, it’s easier for one of us to catch any flying food. That’s actually never been a problem, but you never know. She’s actually very well behaved—and very cute—when we go out to eat, she even flirts with the waiters and says goodbye to patrons as she exits. But there’s always that slight feeling of being on guard—especially when you are eating at a white-linen, five-other-people-besides-the-waiter-comes-to-check-on-you type of establishment—that baby could act out at any moment. She did scream out once when we wouldn’t let her play with the votive, but that was it for the whole hour-plus experience. I figured that paled in comparison to the harmless menu fire that went on at the table next to us.

At one point, a party of four seated next to us moved, which happened to be after Zyla yelped. My husband assured me it was because they wanted a table in the good section of the restaurant, but I’m not so sure. I thought it was because of her, but who really knows. Still, it bothers me when people get annoyed by a baby at a restaurant. I guess that could be selfish on my part.

All in all, it was a great time and as we walked away with Zyla’s tiny little hand in each of ours, wandering the streets of Port Chester looking for an empanda to bring to her grandmother, I thought we should do this more often. I don’t think our bank accounts would agree, though.

For more on the Tarry Lodge, visit Liz Johnson’s small bites blog on lohud.com

This entry was posted on Wednesday, October 22nd, 2008 at 5:49 pm by Marcela Rojas.
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You make it, they eat it, right?

As most parents soon discover, feeding a family is rarely that easy, whether its nursing a fussy newborn or trying to get a hot meal into a squirming toddler (or attempting both at the same time.) And that's not even the days when work runs late, the main course burns, or your adventurous little sushi eater announces from now on she will only eat food that is pink.

As parents ourselves, we've been there, done that, even learned a few tricks along the way. And we're pretty sure so have you. Maybe together we can make eating together as a family -- gulp! -- fun again.

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Hema Easley Hema Easley has been a reporter for The Journal News since July 2002, first covering municipal government and then nonprofit agencies, women's issues and the South Asian and Muslim community in the Lower Hudson Valley. In her previous job, Hema was a correspondent for the Associated Press in South Asia. She lives with her husband and two sons in Orange County.
KatieKatie Ryan O'Connor, a Journal News editor and 35-year-old mother of three, never quite appreciated the work that went into feeding kids until she had to do it herself as a mother. If she had a food-and-kids philosophy it would be something like this: try your best to offer as much healthy food as possible, but sometimes fruits just have to be counted as vegetables and there are far worse things than chicken and spaghetti. Again.
TraceyTracey Princiotta, a 37-year-old mother of one, loves to cook, bake and eat, and is relieved that her son appears to be equally willing to chow down -- even if it's baby food and formula right now. Despite her husband's intense aversion to vegetables, she has high hopes of nurturing a true chowhound who will try everything at least once. And if all else fails, she's not above sneaking veggies into other foods.
Marcela Rojas Marcela Rojas has been a municipal reporter with The Journal News since January 2003. She is a native of Putnam County and grew up eating Peruvian food. She didn't realize until she was 13 that rice did not come with everyone's meal. After several years of living in Los Angeles -- where she grew a fondness for Thai food -- she returned to Putnam County where she now lives with her husband and daughter. Zyla (rhymes with Lilah) just turned 1 in March and, so far (her mother is pleased to note), loves to eat everything.
Swapna Venugopal Swapna Venugopal Ramaswamy, a Journal News reporter, started her career as a journalist in 1999 after graduating with a master's degree from New York University. Before joining the paper in 2006, Swapna worked as a municipal reporter for the Home News Tribune in New Jersey, and took a baby sabbatical to care for her two children, now ages 7 and 5. She has currently outsourced feeding her children and husband to her mother, who is visiting from India. Her friend and colleague Katie O'Connor, informs Swapna that she wouldn't mind being fed Indian food by her mother, too.
Randi Weiner Randi Weiner has been a reporter with The Journal News since 1989, having covered police, government and schools in Westchester and in Rockland. An Ohio native and 1976 graduate of Bowling Green State University, she worked for daily newspapers in Ohio and Michigan before moving east. She has tended bar and danced in a beledi troup and sat on the boards of two community theaters. She plays mandolin with the Shamrogues, Connecticuts largest Irish band. Randi lives in Connecticut with her husband and has three children.

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