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Cooking with the boys

December
30

As the only woman in my family of four, I’m usually the only one in the kitchen. My husband, who is happier than most men to do his share of chores and more, will avoid the kitchen like the plague. So it was a pleasant surprise when on Christmas Day, he and our oldest son said they wanted to help in the kitchen.

My Christmas cooking was simple. Born and raised in India where cooking is usually stove top, I’ve so far used my two oven for storing pots and pans. On Christmas Day I decided to give the ovens a try. On the menu was spinach soup, roast  chicken, roasted potatoes and roasted vegetables. Now that I had decided to use the oven, why not go the whole hog!

Billi, who is 12, helped rinse out the herbs for the chicken — basil, rosemary, marjoram, parsley and bay leaves — and helped chop some which were to be stuffed under the skin of the chicken. He helped stuff the cavity with rosemary and lemons, drizzled olive oil over the chicken and sprinkled pepper and salt as I rubbed it into the chicken. My husband cleaned and cut the potatoes (he loved potatoes) and tied the chicken’s legs with a metal wire because we didn’t have the required string to do so.

The meal was a success and everyone tucked in because they had a part in putting it together. Aristu, our 2 year old, for once decided not to be fussy and declared after nibbling on a piece of chicken, “yumm … del …i…cious.” He even sang “happy Birthday” when we lit the candles on our table centerpiece.

The Christmas Day cooking has given my men a taste of the kitchen. They enjoyed it, though I have to say that they haven’t offered to help since. But now that they have taken the first step, I’m hoping the next time will be easier. Let’s see …

This entry was posted on Tuesday, December 30th, 2008 at 1:03 pm by Hema Easley.
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One Response to “Cooking with the boys”

  1. Lucy

    I too have 4 sons, now grown. To get them involved in cooking we initiated a once a week kid’s cooking night. Each son had a turn once a month to choose the dinner menu, help with the shopping, and do as much of the preparation as they could, with guidance and help from mom when needed. Some were more adventurous than others – we did have to limit the number of mac and cheese and taco dinners – but the result is that they each enjoy cooking, are good cooks, and are a big help in the kitchen when they aren’t cooking. So, keep up the good work – let them cook what they like at this age, and encourage them.

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Hema Easley Hema Easley has been a reporter for The Journal News since July 2002, first covering municipal government and then nonprofit agencies, women's issues and the South Asian and Muslim community in the Lower Hudson Valley. In her previous job, Hema was a correspondent for the Associated Press in South Asia. She lives with her husband and two sons in Orange County.
KatieKatie Ryan O'Connor, a Journal News editor and 35-year-old mother of three, never quite appreciated the work that went into feeding kids until she had to do it herself as a mother. If she had a food-and-kids philosophy it would be something like this: try your best to offer as much healthy food as possible, but sometimes fruits just have to be counted as vegetables and there are far worse things than chicken and spaghetti. Again.
TraceyTracey Princiotta, a 37-year-old mother of one, loves to cook, bake and eat, and is relieved that her son appears to be equally willing to chow down -- even if it's baby food and formula right now. Despite her husband's intense aversion to vegetables, she has high hopes of nurturing a true chowhound who will try everything at least once. And if all else fails, she's not above sneaking veggies into other foods.
Marcela Rojas Marcela Rojas has been a municipal reporter with The Journal News since January 2003. She is a native of Putnam County and grew up eating Peruvian food. She didn't realize until she was 13 that rice did not come with everyone's meal. After several years of living in Los Angeles -- where she grew a fondness for Thai food -- she returned to Putnam County where she now lives with her husband and daughter. Zyla (rhymes with Lilah) just turned 1 in March and, so far (her mother is pleased to note), loves to eat everything.
Swapna Venugopal Swapna Venugopal Ramaswamy, a Journal News reporter, started her career as a journalist in 1999 after graduating with a master's degree from New York University. Before joining the paper in 2006, Swapna worked as a municipal reporter for the Home News Tribune in New Jersey, and took a baby sabbatical to care for her two children, now ages 7 and 5. She has currently outsourced feeding her children and husband to her mother, who is visiting from India. Her friend and colleague Katie O'Connor, informs Swapna that she wouldn't mind being fed Indian food by her mother, too.
Randi Weiner Randi Weiner has been a reporter with The Journal News since 1989, having covered police, government and schools in Westchester and in Rockland. An Ohio native and 1976 graduate of Bowling Green State University, she worked for daily newspapers in Ohio and Michigan before moving east. She has tended bar and danced in a beledi troup and sat on the boards of two community theaters. She plays mandolin with the Shamrogues, ConnecticutŐs largest Irish band. Randi lives in Connecticut with her husband and has three children.

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